Stop asking why. Start asking what.

What is God preparing me for? Lord, what are you you gotta be you gotta have something so great for me that you're allowing me to go through this hardship. You're allowing me to go through this try. What are you preparing me for? You gotta be excited about what is to come because God is doing something, and you gotta be able to speak life over yourself. When you're going through challenges, don't say things like, oh man, you know, it's so hard. Oh, it's so hard. Oh, I hate this. I can't stand this. Nothing ever works out for me. Oh, this is the story of my life. You know, everybody does this to me. Nothing good happens to me. Your life become worried.