How Christian Coaches Make Big Decisions Without Fear

You have a major decision to make today. You have some big decisions that you have to make. Every day you wake up, you are put in a position that you gotta make decisions. And today, I wanna help you to understand as a coach how to make decisions without fear. And I wanna show you a framework that you can be able to utilize, that you can make decisions without fear. When to use when when to use wisdom and when to know that you are afraid or you have fear. And that's something that you need to be able to recognize when you are fearful of something. Right? You need to be able to recognize when you are you don't have the courage that you need. You don't have the wisdom that you need, and and you don't have to back up all the support that you need. So as you're joining today, I want you to share this with someone so they can join the live, whether they watch the live or they watch the replay. But I need you to share this link as you are watching right now because I wanna help you to understand how Christian coaches make decisions without fear. How can you make a decision without fear? Now I wrote a book back here. I wanna show you guys. I wrote this book back in 2019. This is before AI. You know? Make a decision. Anyone that knows me know that I'm passionate about decision making. Make a decision. Make sure there's no glare. Make a decision. Make a decision. Make a decision. And sometimes that's what you have to do. Let me put that back. You have to make a decision. Some of the most rewarding decisions that you're gonna make are going to be the hardest decision that you make. But just because it's hard doesn't mean that you have to escape it. Just because it's difficult doesn't mean that you have to ignore it. And sometimes when you are put in a position to make a decision moving forward, you sometimes just you don't make that decision because you're afraid of several different things. What are people going to think? So I wanna help you to give you a framework so you can be able to understand how that works. And sometimes a pivot a pivotal business decision made from fear is often disguised as discernment. There are times when you gotta make a business decision. Right? You have to learn how to pivot. One of the things that you need to get comfortable with as you scale your business, as you you you look at different things that you 're doing in your personal life, in your business life, in your family, you have to learn to pivot. Now, most people have an issue when it comes to pivoting. You have to learn when to pivot because pivoting is not saying that you're starting over. Pivoting is just saying you found a better way, a more effective way, a more a way that is much more clearer. You have a better sense of discernment, a better sense of direction where you need to go. So you need to get comfortable pivoting in business. When you look at the most successful brands in the world, you're gonna notice that they continue to pivot. When you look at their marketing, you're gonna see that the the marketing that they did for brands that have been around for twenty, thirty, forty, fifty, even a hundred years plus. Right? You're gonna realize the marketing strategy that they used when they got started, is not the exact same marketing strategy that they're using today. So as you are launching your business, as you're scaling your business, you have to be comfortable with pivoting. I want you to say after me, I have to get comfortable with pivoting. So when you pivot, you'll so anyone that plays sports, when you play basketball, there's something called your pivot foot, and your pivot foot is when you grab the ball. One foot stays firm on the ground, and the other foot is moving around trying to see who's open, trying to make moves. So when you are pivoting in your business, you gotta have a solid foundation because without a foundation, you're going to go astray. When you have a solid foundation, it makes sense for you to pivot. Don't pivot when you don't have a clear sense of direction. Because when you pivot or you're trying to pivot and you don't have a clear sense of direction, you're always almost gonna make the wrong decision. You're almost always gonna make the wrong decision, and I want you to make decisions that are going to be helpful to you that have positive consequences. And one thing you gotta understand too is this, when you make a decision in business out of fear, there are consequences negative that are automatically attached to it. I always tell people this. Think about the consequence before you make that decision. Sometimes we get emotional. Sometimes we get fearful. Sometimes we lose focus, and we make decisions that are irrational. Right? And the consequences is automatically tied to that decision. And there's a difference between patience, between godly patience, and paralysis analysis. Right? Patience is when you understand the long game, the compound interest. Right? That things will compound later. You may not get all the results that you're looking for in one week, in one month, and sometimes not even in one year, even three years. But when the results start to come by the second year, by the third year, or whatever time frame that is, it is going to compound. Paralysis analysis or paralysis by analysis is when you have to analyze so many things. You have so many options that you you freeze. You don't know what else to do because you have a ton of different options. As a matter of fact, that's when a lot of times people freeze at the worst moment. They freeze because they have six or seven different options, and that is why I built Pralum. We have three accounts you can sign up for. If you want if you're new to the platform, you can start off with the free account. You sign up, you can create your profile, you can go live just like I'm going live right now. You can go live on your phone. You can go live on your desktop. You can go live anywhere in the world. And then if you want a little bit more, you can use the pro features, which unlocks more for you, and then you have the premium features. So this gives you all the tools that you need so you're not trying to use five or six different platforms. One platform as a coach has everything that you need. It has your meetings. It has your lives. It has uploads. It has your affiliate links. Right? And you it has your booking link. You can be able to have private meetings. So I wanted to build something to eliminate all the tons of different options that you have so you can focus on what matters, and that is the message that is inside of you. That is the message. And sometimes the enemy weaponizes waiting on God to keep faith driven coaches stuck. You've had this idea that you wanna start your business for a very long, long time. Sometimes it's been five years, sometimes fifteen, but you're just saying, man, I'm just waiting on God, or better yet, I'm just waiting for the right moment. You know? When when the moment strikes right, I'm gonna launch my business. When the moment is right, I'm gonna step forward in faith, and I'm going to launch this business that I've always wanted to launch. The truth is that moment has hasn't arrived, and moments like that will never arrive. So you keep pushing it back. Oh, you know what? Maybe next week. Next week comes and you don't do anything. You push it back again. Maybe next month. Next month come or maybe next year. And before you realize it, the business that you wanted to launch is going on four years. You haven't done anything. Five years, ten years. But today, I believe today is the day that you're going to move forward and launch that coaching business that you've always wanted to launch. You have a message that is inside of you. You got a message that people are waiting to hear. You've been through so much. Your experiences, if they were to take the experiences that you have, they can fill a university curriculum, literally, for an for for for four years. If they took the lessons that you've learned in life, that you've learned and the mistakes that you've made, the the the lessons you've learned, the all the things that you've accumulated, the wealth of knowledge, the wealth of wisdom, they can teach a college course for four years plus. So why not use that and and launch that coaching business that's, you know, you you have a message. You know it. People people always tell you. They come to you for advice. When people get confused, you're the first one that they call. When they have issues at home, you're the first one that they call, and you're wondering, why is everybody calling me when they have a problem? Everybody come to you with their problems. They tell you everything. As a matter of fact, there are strangers that have poured out their heart to you. That's not no coincidence because there is something in you. God is telling you, you gotta you gotta graduate from fear to faith. You gotta move from there because if not, that cycle is just going to keep repeating, repeating, repeating. And there is this danger that you're always going to know the right decision will always feel peaceful. Right? There's this thing that, you know, when you wanna start a business, everything is gonna be peaceful. You're gonna be able to it's gonna be just always great. Now I've talked about peace before, and I want you to understand something about peace. There's a certain type of peace that comes when you're going through turbulent times. In the midst of that turbulent times, you know that you have a certain level of peace. Nothing can shake that from you. You have that peace, and you've had this idea for a while. I'm gonna start my coaching business. You know, I'm gonna start this business, but you've pushed it back, and you get unsettled, and then you realize that you go through seasons, and you keep that thing, it keeps coming back to you. It keeps coming back to you. You're in a conversation, sometimes with strangers, and they will begin to talk about the thing that you've been ignoring. This ever happened to you before? You're talking to someone, and they'll bring up something that you've you've been pushing back. And that is because that is God's way of letting you know, move move out. Step out, step out in faith. Don't let fear paralyze you because fear will paralyze you. Fear will stop you dead in your tracks. Fear will make you not want to do anything. There are people today, they are living in so much fear. They cannot even go outside of their homes because they're afraid, what if I get shot? What if I get ran over by a car? What if this happened? They all they can think about is the negative things that happen in life. So they become paralyzed, but that is not you. And the longer you wait to start this, the harder it becomes for you to start it. So this is how it works. When God puts put a passion in you, a desire in you to do something, that desire gets stirred up. When you're around the right environment, around the right people, that desire gets stirred up. So sometimes you're like, nah. You know what? I'm not gonna do it. And then you connect with certain people and then stir that thing up inside of you again. After a while, if you keep suppressing that feeling, if you keep pushing it back, you're going to realize that after a while, it just become less intense, and eventually, it just goes dormant for a while. But today is the day that you're going to unlock that, and we're going to unlock it together. I wanna help you to unlock break break away from fear. Break away from fear. There's a passage that talks about for God, I believe it's second Timothy four seven. For God has not given you the spirit of fear, but of love, of power, and of a sound mind. There was a point in my life when I was going through something, and I was so afraid. Have you ever been gripped by fear so much that you literally just freeze? I mean, you stand still in one spot because you have so much fear. And I remember saying, man, this is not right. So one summer, I sat in my car by the park. It was a nice little stream, and I began to say, no. I'm I'm not afraid, for God has not given me the spirit of fear, but a power of love and a sound mind. I began to speak that over myself. I began to declare that over myself, and I refused to allow fear to break me. I refuse to move by fear because when you move by fear, you are blinded. When you move by fear, you are confused. When you move by fear, you are lost. When you're moved by fear, you are discombobulated. When you're moved by fear, you don't have a clear sense of direction. When you are moved by fear, you're you're plagued with anxiety, and it's something like something is just gripping you, and now is the time for you to break forth from that thing and launch that coaching business that you've been desiring for such a long time. There are people the world is waiting for you. You owe people you owe someone your message. You owe someone to help them get to their next level. They need to hear from you. They need to hear how you overcame that obstacle. They need to hear how you overcame that challenge. They need to know how were you able to deal with so much pressure. How were you able to deal with so much pressure? Things were coming at you left and right. How did you overcome that? There's a crowd of people that are waiting to hear that message from you. How did you overcome fear? There are people right now that are literally frozen. They cannot move on with their lives at all because they're afraid this if they do something, it's not going to work out. If I do this, it's not gonna work out. So they are paralyzed. They just stay home. They have this cycle that that's been repeating for years now, but you are the one that you can speak life into them. You can break that cycle from them. You can break that cycle. Proverbs three five and six says, trust in the Lord in all your ways, and he will direct your path. Trust in the Lord. Trust in the Lord, and he will direct your path. There is a path that's already been set before you. All you gotta do is have trust in your creator, and he is going to direct your path. He's going to make sure all the crooked places, he makes straight, all the the the holes, the potholes, that people the trust has been set before you. Those traps are covered up. You gotta speak life. James one and five says, ask for wisdom because it's guaranteed to be given to you. You don't know what direction to go in your business, man. That is the best time for you to get on your knees and say, Lord, I wanna start this business, but I don't know what I'm doing. I don't know where I'm going. I'm lost. I am lost like a ship without a sailor. I am lost. I'm hearing people talk about AI. I'm hearing people talk about business. I'm hearing all these things, but God, I am so lost right now. I don't even know. And God knows how to put the right business connection your way. He knows how to put the right people that know where you need to go. He will connect you, but you have to take that first step. You gotta move. You've been researching about starting a business for too long. It's been years. You've gone to seminars. You've gone to other events. You've gone to conferences. You've read books. You've watched a bunch of videos about starting a business, about launching a coaching business, about stepping up, but you have not taken that single step to do anything. But today is the day that you would take the first step. Take that first step. So if you're in prelim right now, I want you to go. There's a link here. You can be able to sign up and launch your coaching business for free. You really can't. You keep up to 75% of the revenue that you generate. We have an affiliate program that you can be able to share your link. Anytime that someone purchased something, you get recurring revenue from that. You can keep up to 90% of the money that you generate on this platform. 90%. So what are you waiting for? The world is waiting to hear from you. The world is waiting to hear from you. Don't keep them waiting. And there's a leader called Nehemiah. Nehemiah was a strategic leader. He rebuilt the walls of Jerusalem, but Nehemiah had to have a plan, he had to have discernment, had to have execution, and he had to have resilience. So these are the four things that I wanna share with you, that as you are going through this valley of decision making, as you're going through this thing called fear, how to break it, the one of the things you have to do is discernment, is to be able to discern what season are you in. How do you do this? When do you do it? Discernment is to is is that inner feeling that just let you know you're something is off or something is right. This person, connect with them. That person, let them go. Then you want you wanna have a plan. Most people don't have a plan for their business. They are winging it. If you don't have a plan for your business and you try to use AI, it is going to be more AI is going to perfect your the direction you're going even if it's the wrong direction. So you need to have a plan. Get a pen. Get a paper. I know we live in a digital age, but one of the things that I do is when I'm creating a plan, I sit down and I write my plans. Okay? I wanna do this. I wanna go that direction. This month, this is my goals are. This month, this is what I'm planning to do. Even when I'm creating content, I take some time to create the content that I wanna put on this on on Pralum and other platforms. Take some time to create it. So Nehemiah had to use discernment. You have to be a strategic business person. Every successful business person is strategic in everything that they do. And the way that they become successful because they've learned that you cannot win your way to success. You just can't. You might be able to, you know, get a become like a one hit wonder, but that never last. So every successful coach learn how to be strategic with everything that you're doing in every aspect of your life. You gotta be discerning to know when to do things, who to be around. You gotta have a plan. You have to have a plan. You can't just hope things happen. You can't just wish for things to happen. It doesn't work that way. That's you gotta have a strategic plan to move forward, then you have to execute. I think this is where, most people miss it. It's in execution. A lot of times people, they'll they'll do everything else. Maybe you've done everything else but move forward. Right? You listen to the podcast. You go to the webinars. You go to the conference. You read the books. You download the material, but you've never taken steps to say, today, I'm going to start today. I'm gonna start. No excuses. Don't wait for things to be perfect. I'm gonna launch my business today. When you start to act like that, you're gonna notice that things begin to shift your way. When you start to take action, things are going to start to move your way, and you have to be resilience under opposition. You gotta be resilience under pressure because when you start your business, it's not always going to be a bed of roses. You're gonna go through some learning curves, some growing pains, and that is to be accepted and expected. So as you're starting, it's okay for you to mess up when you get started. You're not gonna get everything right. So get this perfection thing out of you. Just get started. Just click there's a link now. You click the link, sign up for free, create an account, just get started. If nothing that you do today on this platform is to get started, you're you're right ahead of 99.9% of the population. If there's nothing else that you do, create a free account, get started. Next, upload a video. Upload just one video. You can share your experience. You can share what you're going through. You can share what you've learned. Share something valuable that will enhance someone's life. Share something that will inspire someone, that will motivate someone, that will encourage someone. So you wanna be able to share something. Share something. Now I wanna give you a five part decision filter for Christian for if you're a coach, I wanna give you a five part decision filter. Now this applies not just to coaches, but I'm speaking to coaches today. So this applies not just to coaches. It applies to anybody. Filter number one, spirit check. Does this align with the fruit of the spirit, not just the feeling of excitement? And Galatians five twenty two twenty three talks about it and apply to business, and I want you to go read that. Right? And one of the fruits of the fruit of the spirit is patience. One of the fruit of the spirit is long suffering. So is this does it align with the fruit of the spirit, or are you just moving off feelings and excitement? So that is the first filter that you have to have to check. You're not just going off with feelings. Sometimes people do that. They feel this thing. They feel momentum, and they just launch something based off of that, but they never really check. Filter number two, stewardship. Does this decision honor the resources, relationships, and reputation God has already entrusted you. Stewardship. When you're given something, how well do you take care of it? You want new clients. If God were to open up the doors right now to give you 50 clients, are you gonna steward them right? Are you going to do you have the right resources for all those 50 people? And you wanna build relationship. Are you in a position now that if your business were to expand, you can build the relationship with the right people? That is what you need. Because when you use this filter, it helps you to align yourself with the right relationships, And it also shows God that you are ready for more. You know, God doesn't give you what you pray for all the time. God doesn't give you something just because you ask for it. Right? Because sometimes you ask for something that you cannot manage. So it all goes back, and I talk about this. It goes back to you preparing and being having a system in place. I talk about systems all the time. I love systems because system is what helps you to organize your thoughts, organize your life, organize your business, organize your strategy. You need to have a systematic way that you market yourself, a systematic way that you market your business, a systematic way that you create content. You need to think systems before anything else. Before you do anything else, think about what type of system do I need to be with this. And talk about systems. I have a ninety day accelerator program. Right? There's a link at the bottom of this video, a ninety day accelerator program. This is where I walk you step by step how to launch a business and and kinda hold you by the hands to show you what to do, what not to do, and how to use this platform. It goes through everything that you need when you're getting started. So even if you've you've never started coaching before or maybe you're looking to scale your your coaching practice and you're looking to manage other coaches, well, the platform have the agency feature where you can be able to manage other coaches under you as many as you need. So if you already have your person of influence and you already have a large following and there are clients that you have, well, you can use this platform to manage the coaches that are under you. So that is one of the benefits. Now filter number three, mission alignment. Does this move your coaching practice closer to the transformation you were called to create, or is it another shiny object syndrome dressed in different terminology? It's all about your mission. What is the mission for your coaching? What is the mission for your business? What are you trying to accomplish? Or what do you hope to accomplish with your business? What is that one thing? There's always something that you wanna accomplish now. You can have a list of five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten different things, but there's always going to be that one thing that you want to accomplish. That one thing. So what is that one thing that you wanna accomplish? Your mission. This is the mission that drives you. This is something that you're passionate about. This is something that brings joy to you. When you help other people, when you give value, when you bring clarity, when you show them that, look, this things can be better. You go that way. When you do that, you're on a mission. You are on a mission. I want you to say, I am on a mission. I'm on a mission. I'm on a mission. And when you're on a mission, you choose your relationships wisely. When you're on a mission, you don't get around just anybody. When you're on a mission, you are very careful who you bring around. When you are on mission. You're a focus. When you're on a mission, you're passionate. When you're on a mission, you are disciplined. It's not always about motivation because there are times you're gonna realize that you're not always motivated, and you're not as motivated as you feel you need to be all the time, and that's okay. So filter number two, reversibility test. Is this a one way door or a two way door decision? How this changes, how long you discern? Is this a one way door, or is this something that, you know, I can go in and I can come back? Sometimes you realize that there's certain doors in your life that open that once you go through that door, there's no way coming back. That's it. So you gotta make a decision. Is this door is it a two way thing? And and and partnerships in business, sometimes when you partner with certain people, it's a one way street. You know, you're the giver, you give, give, give, but you never really get anything back from them. So you wanna be able to make sure that it's both ways, and it's not just on you and you alone because that is going to help you. Now I wanna give you counterfeit versions of discernment. Right? Every time that you got something real, there's always some type of counterfeit, and we wanna take a look at the counterfeits that are sabotaging your business. So if you're not scaling, if you're not growing, there's something that is sabotaging your coaching business. Counterfeits. And I wanna be able to I wanna give you three of those. Counterfeit number one, emotional confirmation bias. Seeking signs that validate what you already want to do, not what God is actually saying to you. You're seeking signs validation from other people when you know in your heart what you already gotta do. You're seeking for validation from people that don't even care about you, people that can't even stand you, they don't even like you, yet you're seeking validation from the same people that are hoping that you don't succeed. You're seeking validation from the same people that are hoping that your business falls apart, that your life falls apart. Matter of fact, when they hear that something bad happens to you, they are silently rejoicing like, yes. I'm glad it happened to them. Yet, those are the same people that you're seeking validation from. You don't need that. You need to pray and say, okay, God. What are you saying? You know, one of the things that I've learned over the years is is that you become so much comfortable when you know who you are. I don't look for validation from anybody. It's nice when people give you comments, when people say something positive about you. But validation because whoever can give a validation can also give you invalidation. They can also do that, but you get to a place where you are so comfortable in who you are. You get to a place where you are so comfortable in your mission. You get to a place where even if you never get another applause, doesn't make a difference. I'm at that place in my life where if I never get anybody that say, hey. You're doing a good job, I know I'm doing a good job because I'm doing my best. And sometimes that's how you have to have to be because you're gonna go through seasons where you're not gonna have people cheering you on. Oh, great job. Awesome. Wonderful. You're not gonna always have that. So what do you have to do? You have to learn to speak life to yourself. You have to learn to love yourself. If you don't love yourself, people can feel your energy. Have you ever been around people that you can sense their doubt about themselves? You can sense their uncertainty about their decisions that they're making. You can sense that they're not comfortable about doing like, you've been around people, and you can feel the energy that's coming from them, whether good or bad. Whether good or bad. Counterfeit number two, census based discernment. You're pulling your community until you get the answer that you until you get the answer that relieves your anxiety, confusion, or confusion popularity with Providence. Man, this is this hit home. You keep asking the same question over and over again until people say what you want them to say. That's a counterfeit. Until you get the answer that makes you feel good about yourself. Until you get the answer that you're hoping they're going to give you. You know, sometimes when we ask people question, we're not asking them the question because we want to know. We're asking them the question because we're hoping they'll tell us what we want them to tell us. We're hoping they're gonna tell us what we wanna hear, not what the reality is. You know, as I use AI to build this platform, one of the things that I've I'm learning that I've learned from AI is not even the coding and all the exceptional things that it does. The single biggest thing that I've learned and I'm learning from AI is the reasoning. When you type a prompt with any of these models, it's gonna give you reasoning behind it, the logic behind it. You're thinking this is gonna give you you know, it's gonna flatter you. Right? You think it's gonna say, why are you either this and you're either that? But if you can figure right, it gives you the harsh reality. So stop asking questions that you already know the answer to. And when you ask questions, be open to different perspectives. Sometimes we ask questions with a closed mind. We're waiting for people to just feed your ego, but you have to ask questions with an open mind. Whatever comes, whatever they say, and that's when you need constructive feedback. You need constructive feedback from people. Counterfeit number three, perfectionism is a killer. You wait until every detail is perfect before moving forward and is rooted in pride and fear of failure, not humility. Perfectionism. Man, you just want everything to be perfect. You will never have a time in your life when everything is perfect. Because if you dig deep and you search, you're gonna realize that everything is not perfect. So you're not gonna have that time. So what do you do? They say launch before you're ready. Go before you're ready. Don't wait for everything to line up exactly just right. Most of the successful coaches and entrepreneurs, as long as they have up to 80% of the information, they can make a decision. You need to get to a place mentally where you don't need to have 100% of the information to make a decision. You gotta get to that place. You gotta get to it. And oftentimes, most people gotta wait until, you know, I gotta get the funding. I gotta get the right connections. I gotta do this, and I gotta do that. And at the end of the day, man, they just they never launched anything. Two years later when you're talking to them, you realize that they are still in the planning phase of what should have been launched years ago. They're still in the planning phase. And when you ask them, so when are you gonna start that business? Yeah. You know? So and I'm I'm almost ready. I'm almost there. You know? I just got a few things I wanna, you know, tidy up. I wanna do x, y, and z, and those few things never get done. So get rid of your excuses today and start your business. Get rid of your excuses today. Get rid of your excuses today and make a decision that I'm gonna start a business. So on the site, there's the link at the bottom of this video, and there's a link up in the site. You can be able to go there, launch it. If not if you don't do anything else today, just create an account. You can create a free account today. Create an account and start posting. Start sharing your thoughts. Start sharing what you've learned. Don't worry about the lighting. Now people see me, I got the studio, have the nice lights, have the the professional mic. It wasn't always like this. It was not always like this. As a matter of fact, when I look at my first video that I did, man, I just like, whew. When I look at that thing, I'm like, lord. Back then, I thought that was that was, you know, perfection. I thought it was perfection. But then when I looked at it, man, I was just like, that is not it. That is not it at all. So you gotta be able to do the same same thing. Right? Don't wait to be perfect. Just just get going. Just launch it. So we're living in times now where things are a lot easier. You have access to so many tools that you can use. So there's no excuse anymore for why you haven't taken that step. There's absolutely no excuse for why you haven't taken that step. Start where you are. Start where you are. Use what you have until you can get things that you desire. Get rid of this perfectionist mindset. Start exactly where you are you are. And you gotta be disciplined. You have to be disciplined. You know, when I made a commitment that, you know, for the next thirty days or whatever long, I'm gonna go live every day, man, today was one of those days that I did not wanna go live. I had a long day. I'm tired. I'm I'm sleepy. You know? I like I like taking my naps. I like taking naps. I I don't know about you, but I love taking my naps. You know? And because it refreshes me, you know? And I was just like, today, man, I had I had so many calls to make this morning. After I finished, you know, making some calls, I was like, I just wanna go lay down and just rest, but I couldn't really rest because I had to do follow ups. I had to do more editing. I had to do more update. I had to get ready for tonight. You know? I had to make sure this was done. So by the time that I look at the time, it was time for me to get ready for the live. So I couldn't just, like, you know, I couldn't just go lay down. But I'm definitely gonna take a nap, lay down, after this. So I wanna be able to make sure that I'm able to, you know, just take a nap. I love my dabs. I love my nap. Now I wanna share about the danger of algorithm driven decision. When you're optimizing for engagement leads, you when you optimize for engagement, leads you away from your calling, from your message. There are people today that will create a video about what's trending, and what's trending has absolutely nothing to do with their calling. It has absolutely nothing to do with their purpose. But just because they wanna be in front of people, just because they wanna make some noise, they'll create something. Your purpose is your trend. Your calling is your trend. I want you to get in the mindset of I need to stay in my lane. When you stay in your lane, I'm telling you, that is the most beautiful lane in the world. Because the lane that God has put before you, no one else can compete on that lane with you. No one else can touch that lane. It is specifically just for you. Your experiences is in that lane. Your relationships, same lane. Your business, same lane. And as a coach, you're gonna realize that there is so much rich there is so much wealth in that lane. Now what does it mean to stay in your lane? You can choose a specific area of coaching that you wanna focus on. Maybe you wanna focus on leadership. Man, there is so much to cover about leadership. So many aspects of it. Maybe you wanna do executive coaching. There is so much you can talk about executive coaching. Maybe you wanna do children, you know, family. You can talk about family. Maybe you wanna do relationships, marriage and relationship. There is so much to talk about. What area whatever area of coaching that you wanna focus on, stay in that lane, master and learn everything there is to learn about that particular topic. Exhaust every resources. Read as many books. Listen to the podcast. Polish your skill set. You know, that's what I do. I love to learn because learning keeps me motivated, keeps me disciplined. Right? It keeps me disciplined at all times. It keeps me disciplined, and I want you to be a learner. When you learn when you're a learner, you realize that doors of opportunity open. Your perspective begin to change. It really change when you learn, and that's one of the reasons why, man, I love to travel outside The US. I love to travel. Because when you travel to other countries from The US, you get to realize that America is not the world. The world is in America, but America is not the world. There are so many different perspectives. There are so many ways that people live. It's a beautiful mountain it's a beautiful thing when you get to travel. Maybe you're living from another country, you're coming to The US or wherever you are, but just to be able to expose yourself. Go out and explore. Go out and experience life and use those experiences and share it with the world. Connected to your message. Connected to your message. Connected at all times. Because people before people sign up for your programs, for your coaching, for your mentorship, for your exclusive content, for the VIP. Before people sign up for that, they're believing in you. They they come in to support you, not the business first. They saw you, not the business first. So you wanna make sure that you are in alignment with your purpose. Don't let anything get you off focus. Don't let people move you. Now there is an alignment, a discernment, and how knowing who God called you to be eliminates 80% of the decision you agonize over. When you know who you are, you will automatically eliminate 80% of the distractions in your life. When you know who God has called you to be, when you know what your message is, when you know the type of influence that you have, you've already eliminated 80% of the distractions of the haters. You've eliminated 80% of the people that don't need access to you. The reason why you keep giving everyone access to you is because you don't know who you are yet. But I know that it should go on this journey to find out. When you find out I heard a popular saying that the most important day in your life, the day you're born and the day you find out why you're born. Oh, that is such a powerful, powerful I don't know who said it, but that is so powerful. The day you're born, and the day you find out why. You were put here for a purpose. You have a message to share with the world, and that's all a coach does. Coach people, inspire people, motivate people, help people become more disciplined, help people, you know, find their purpose, connect with their purpose. That is what you are going to be doing because that is already inside of you. There are a lot of people that are looking for direction. They're looking for direction, and you are the person that would give them that sense of direction. So they're waiting for you. When you struggle with with fear, you have the most untapped authority. You have something that's untapped, and that's why I encourage you to find out who you are. Know who you are. So as you're consulting people, as you're meeting and talking with your clients, that your clients can feel your energy coming through. They can feel your confidence level. They can feel your clarity level. They can feel your purpose level. They can sense all of that coming from you. And that's why you gotta know who you are. You gotta know who you are. I have a a monthly, Kingdom AI training that you can join to get resources. I release regular resources that you can sign up for at the bottom of this video. There's a link. You can, you know, you can download different things, and I create specific videos just for, just for members only that you can be able to to learn, something that's don't share with, you know, with the general public. So being part of that, there's a link at the bottom of this where you can be able to use that and and get some resources that is going to help you to polish yourself. You know, I believe and iron sharpens iron. Okay? Iron sharpens iron. So you have to be around people that are smarter than you if you want to grow. You cannot be around dumb people and grow. You know? You can't just be, you know, around a a group of, you know, dumb people and then you grow. It just doesn't happen. So get around people. And if you haven't signed them yet, make sure you go, you can pray on them. You can sign up. Create an account to start your coaching business. Today is the day for you to start your coaching business. So if you've been pushing things back, you know, I'll start next week. I'll start next month. It's been several weeks already. It's been several months, but you have a message inside of you as a coach that the world is waiting to hear. You have a message inside of you that millions of people are desperate for, and this is the time there's never been a better time for you to start your own coaching business. Don't wait to be perfect. Everything's not always going to be perfect, but you have a message inside of you. And the world, man, they are waiting to hear. They're waiting to hear that. So make sure you share this link with a friend. And I'm looking forward to you creating your account, and I'm looking forward to you uploading your first video. You can send emails through here too. You have an email account. You can run your emails through there. I wanted to design a system that gives you all the tools that you need in one place. So you're not going somewhere else for emails, somewhere else for videos, somewhere else for live training, somewhere else for meetings. Everything is on the same platform. And when you get access to it, you scale your business, and you keep up to 90% of the revenue that you generate. 90%. So I hope that you learned something today. I hope that you step out in faith and stop living in fear because there's never been a better time to start your own coaching business than now. Let me say it again. There's never been a better time for you to start your own coaching business than now. So get it started. Get it started. And we have AI that will help you create an offer. All that you have to do is type in the keyword for your offer, and the AI is going to build the offer for you. Plain and simple. You don't have to do any coding at all. It is going to book meetings for you. You can have private sessions with your clients, and the AI is trained to help you sharpen your skills. After the meeting, it's going to let you know how to improve. It's gonna give you feedback on what to do for the next meeting. It's going to let you know what things to say and and how to how to use words that convert, words that are meaningful, words that will get you what you desire. Get started today. Don't push it back anymore. I'm here for you, and I cannot wait to connect with you. God bless you, and see you tomorrow, same time, 8PM Eastern Standard Time. God bless.